When you decide to tell yourself, “I’m gonna get it together this time!” Don’t be surprised when you experience persecution from…
Why I’m still single
As of January 1st, 2022 it’s finally dawned on me that I’ve never had a girlfriend or never even came…
Three Years Later…
Today is January 3rd, 2021 which means I’ve accomplished three years of sobriety, but I have mixed emotions of happiness…
Where do I go from here?
Mom’s dead now and I’m not too sure where I go from here. I think I’m doing well handling all…
Why do we think the worst in people?
Well, would you believe it if I said it’s natural to be slightly skeptical of people? Or would you just…
The momentum is shifting…
Yet again I feel as if the tides are turning and I can vividly hear the ocean waves. I’m not…
What is troubling you?
What are you afraid of when you close your eyes? You don’t have to tell me in the comment section…
Masturbation is self rape
The world teaches us that masturbation is stimulation of one’s own genitals for sexual pleasure. However, 2 Timothy 2:22 teaches…
You’ll never fit in anywhere
Yesterday, I caught myself asking God why do I not fit in with others? It all started when I was…
Your job is not your god
Many people worship their job and try to climb this imaginary corporate ladder but fail to realize it’s 100% imaginary!…
A Musing on Abstinence
by Britani Doulos The other day I was spending time with a sweet sister and we got on the topic…
Give up your fleshly desires
I’ve noticed that when it comes to making sacrifices we choose not to. But why is that? It’s because most…
I got Baptized
It’s normal to have doubts before a big event right? So I can’t be surprised that on Saturday I was…
God is not responsible for Church hurt
Churches have a responsibility to uphold God’s word and be honest with the congregation at all times. However, many believers…
Why it’s harder for men to submit to God
As a Christian I’ve been in and out of church over the last couple of years. I’ve struggled with being…
Advice for single men of God
Being a single man of God is not easy. As a single man of God myself, I’m advising you to…
What does it mean to be born again?
Being born again just feels weird because sometimes I feel as if God is talking to me and other times,…
Your battle is physical, spiritual and mental.
I used to think that life was a war consisting of physical and mental gymnastics that you have to conquer…
It’s hard to educate others
Yeah I said it. It’s hard to educate others. I’ve been writing this blog now for about a couple of…
Why is sin so attractive
We try our best not to sin/ lie but it’s challenging. Honestly, many of us have been raised to do…
I just want to be pure
One of my favorite films of all time is the Basketball Diaries. It’s a great film about promising basketball prospect…
I thought I could improve without God
Over the past three years my self-improvement journey has taught me alot about myself. I’ve learned about how to establish…
Greed has poisoned our souls
Greed. It’s the reason why our society is battling with an obesity crisis, and identity crisis, and overall, an emptiness…
Can I write better if I roll one up?
Lately, I’ve been feeling down in the dumps lying around in bed trying to run away from my thoughts. Sure…
Your anger will kill you
Many people are very angry in this world due to unhealed childhood issues. Oftentimes, that leads them to verbally abuse…
I thought I was stupid!
When I was younger my learning disability made me feel less than others. In middle and high school, it was…
Being good is easy until you’re tempted..
These past 2 years or so have been pretty interesting to say the least. I’ve quit drinking, smoking, gave up…
Do you believe in God or nah?
My church experiences haven’t been the greatest and have almost pushed me to become an atheist. Situations such as my…
Why you need to be more self-reliant in today’s society
Why you need to be self-reliant in today’s society In today’s world a lot of crazy things are happening. Guess…
I hated being called sensitive
Being called sensitive as a man is a death sentence because our culture implies that if you aren’t the beer…
Hollywood has made us hate ourselves.
Hollywood has convinced us that you aren’t beautiful without a chiseled jawline, 6 pick abs, a bubble butt, or the…
You need to get serious!
“January was just the trial version. I’m going to start working on my New Year’s Resolution in February.” says the…
Get rid of it!
Life becomes more simplistic when you learn to let go. Whether that be toxic relationships, friendships, jobs, and most importantly…
Adapt or perish!
So many of us have been trained by society to fear the future or even the present. We have let…
Being quiet intimidates others
Have you ever been told that you intimidate others? Well I have. Ever since I was in middle school I…
Money doesn’t heal your pain
Many still believe if they had all the money in the world, their problems would disappear. However, these people aren’t…
I don’t buy Christmas gifts
I know around this time of year everybody is buying gifts for their friends and family. However, I just do…
The “HUSH HUSH” era is dead!
Introverts, deep thinkers, and intuitives receive a bad reputation as being too quiet, afraid to speak, or vocalize their opinions.…
Never gossip at the workplace
Not everyone at your job is your friend or family. Many of your co-workers will smile in your face and…
Your issues are your issues
Have you ever heard anyone say to you, “I’m angry because my mother/father did this to me!” This same tired…
He ain’t a baby anymore
We need to stop referring to young men as boys or babies. Men will often turn to their adult son…
Cuffing season is ridiculous
It’s that time of year where people say they want to be “cuffed up” (in a fling) but many people…
Why Good people get so tired quickly..
As I good person I’ve realized many people lack morals and principles these days. However, this has nothing do with…
How to manage seasonal depression
Just to give those a disclaimer I am not a doctor or licensed therapist. I haven’t been diagnosed with seasonal…
Solitude comes with sacrifices
Let’s be honest. One of the reasons why you don’t fit in, don’t want to associate with everybody, and keep…
The 2nd addiction keeping you from your full potential
In last week’s blog I discussed lust and how it has been the number one hindrance in a man’s success.…
The #1 addiction keeping you from your full potential
From a men’s perspective, lust has been the downfall of many men. Whether you believe it or not a man’s…
Multiple Partners = Multiple problems
Our world is becoming completely shallow that I’m not even shocked anymore. Instead of blaming ourselves we’ve resorted to blaming…
The Art of Nothing
Over the years I’ve learned that people make comments that I don’t approve of. Back then I’d tend to get…
Breakdowns suck!
Have you ever had a mental breakdown in your life before? Well, I have.. It’s something you will always remember.…
Are there issues you aren’t discussing?
Drake once said in his song Too Much, “There are issues at hand that we’re not discussing.” That hit deep…
7:10 p.m.
I know what you’re thinking. Why is this post being called 7:10 p.m.? Well, that’s when my mother’s boyfriend called…
The Rough Patch
Life has its moments when it’s really easy and then suddenly, a disaster hits you. One minute I can feel…
The Power of Consistency
Life is about making mistakes. That’s it. You will make mistakes in life but are you giving yourself time to…
Call me Bret Hart because I’m wrestling with shadows..
For those who are unaware of who Bret Hart is, he is a retired professional wrestler who worked for the…
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