I used to think that life was a war consisting of physical and mental gymnastics that you have to conquer…
It’s hard to educate others
Yeah I said it. It’s hard to educate others. I’ve been writing this blog now for about a couple of…
Why is sin so attractive
We try our best not to sin/ lie but it’s challenging. Honestly, many of us have been raised to do…
I just want to be pure
One of my favorite films of all time is the Basketball Diaries. It’s a great film about promising basketball prospect…
I thought I could improve without God
Over the past three years my self-improvement journey has taught me alot about myself. I’ve learned about how to establish…
Greed has poisoned our souls
Greed. It’s the reason why our society is battling with an obesity crisis, and identity crisis, and overall, an emptiness…
Can I write better if I roll one up?
Lately, I’ve been feeling down in the dumps lying around in bed trying to run away from my thoughts. Sure…
Your anger will kill you
Many people are very angry in this world due to unhealed childhood issues. Oftentimes, that leads them to verbally abuse…
I thought I was stupid!
When I was younger my learning disability made me feel less than others. In middle and high school, it was…
Being good is easy until you’re tempted..
These past 2 years or so have been pretty interesting to say the least. I’ve quit drinking, smoking, gave up…
Do you believe in God or nah?
My church experiences haven’t been the greatest and have almost pushed me to become an atheist. Situations such as my…
Why you need to be more self-reliant in today’s society
Why you need to be self-reliant in today’s society In today’s world a lot of crazy things are happening. Guess…
I hated being called sensitive
Being called sensitive as a man is a death sentence because our culture implies that if you aren’t the beer…
Hollywood has made us hate ourselves.
Hollywood has convinced us that you aren’t beautiful without a chiseled jawline, 6 pick abs, a bubble butt, or the…
You need to get serious!
“January was just the trial version. I’m going to start working on my New Year’s Resolution in February.” says the…
Get rid of it!
Life becomes more simplistic when you learn to let go. Whether that be toxic relationships, friendships, jobs, and most importantly…
Adapt or perish!
So many of us have been trained by society to fear the future or even the present. We have let…
Being quiet intimidates others
Have you ever been told that you intimidate others? Well I have. Ever since I was in middle school I…
The RAW truth about sobriety
“Been scared and only. I’ve asked myself is something wrong with you.” (Bottom of the Bottle, Smile Empty Soul) I’ve…
Money doesn’t heal your pain
Many still believe if they had all the money in the world, their problems would disappear. However, these people aren’t…
I don’t buy Christmas gifts
I know around this time of year everybody is buying gifts for their friends and family. However, I just do…
The “HUSH HUSH” era is dead!
Introverts, deep thinkers, and intuitives receive a bad reputation as being too quiet, afraid to speak, or vocalize their opinions.…
Never gossip at the workplace
Not everyone at your job is your friend or family. Many of your co-workers will smile in your face and…
Your issues are your issues
Have you ever heard anyone say to you, “I’m angry because my mother/father did this to me!” This same tired…
He ain’t a baby anymore
We need to stop referring to young men as boys or babies. Men will often turn to their adult son…
Cuffing season is ridiculous
It’s that time of year where people say they want to be “cuffed up” (in a fling) but many people…
Why Good people get so tired quickly..
As I good person I’ve realized many people lack morals and principles these days. However, this has nothing do with…
How to manage seasonal depression
Just to give those a disclaimer I am not a doctor or licensed therapist. I haven’t been diagnosed with seasonal…
Solitude comes with sacrifices
Let’s be honest. One of the reasons why you don’t fit in, don’t want to associate with everybody, and keep…
The 2nd addiction keeping you from your full potential
In last week’s blog I discussed lust and how it has been the number one hindrance in a man’s success.…
The #1 addiction keeping you from your full potential
From a men’s perspective, lust has been the downfall of many men. Whether you believe it or not a man’s…
Multiple Partners = Multiple problems
Our world is becoming completely shallow that I’m not even shocked anymore. Instead of blaming ourselves we’ve resorted to blaming…
The Art of Nothing
Over the years I’ve learned that people make comments that I don’t approve of. Back then I’d tend to get…
Breakdowns suck!
Have you ever had a mental breakdown in your life before? Well, I have.. It’s something you will always remember.…
Don’t mix business with pleasure
I didn’t think we’d have to talk about this but I guess we have to. From a man’s perspective I…
You must motivate yourself.
“OMG did you watch the latest podcast episode of “Tony Robbins” “No, I didn’t!” “What are waiting for you have…
You don’t deserve anything!
I don’t believe anyone deserves anything! Everybody needs to get up and work for what they have. When you keep…
Respect is everything.
What is one of the most fundamental keys in business, friendship, relationships, or family? Respect. If respect isn’t established beforehand,…
WWW it’s all about me, I don’t have to follow the rules!
Guest Blogger: Dorian Owens We live in a society where people choose to be unkind, respectful, or ever accountable for…
Don’t impress anyone
I’ve never been able to “fit in” with the crowd. It’s either I “stood out” or just “blended in.” Even…
This feels weird…
This feels weird… With everything going on right now everything is just weird.. During this time I’ve been forced to…
There’s too much eating!
Overtime, we’ve lost patience. We want things to fall into our lap without realizing, it takes time. Each day you…
Negative visualization isn’t a bad thing
In a world where everybody is striving to be more positive, we sometimes forget that negative things happen out of…
ARE YOU FAKE?
Being a follower means that your FAKE! Many people are misusing prescription medication and other recreational drugs to numb the…
Understand others more
Many of us believe we have to help everyone. However, this is an impossible task. You cannot help everyone. I…
N.A.K.E.D.
Relationships and marriages aren’t the same anymore because we aren’t in LOVE, we just LUST after each other. Unfortunately, LUST…
Forgive but never forget
Subscribe: We’ve all been screwed over by somebody! That’s just the way life is. With that being said, you must…
Why are you so calm?
Calmness in my heart has come from mediation and my own spirituality. Whenever I get angry, I simply let it…
They want you to freak out
With everything going on in the world it’s sad that people have become reactive instead of proactive. It’s the reason…
I don’t buy what you’re selling
Too many people just talk too much. However, not too many people are actually doing anything. Have you ever heard…
