We need to talk about Ghosting. Society will say my generation (Millenial and Gen-Z) are the blame but I disagree.…
Healing is scary..
Have you ever been afraid to make changes in your life because you’ll lose everybody? I have. Ever since I’ve…
God believes in me and that’s all that matters.
Many people will never see greatness in you. They’re quick to remind you of your past, give you disapproving looks…
Why I stopped watching Horror Films
When I was eight I watched Halloween (1978) for the first time and I was terrified. I remember not being…
Withdrawal sucks!
“Withdrawl sucks” Anybody that’s ever battled addiction will tell you that withdrawals suck. It doesn’t matter if it’s porn, drinking,…
I died..
I died.. The world has fed me nothing but lies. I don’t understand anything this world has to offer me…
Seek Him or face His wrath
Prosperity Gospel is fast food but the true Gospel is fresh fruit. Let me explain. As a plant-based eater, I’ve…
“Man’s man vs God’s man”
The old me is dead but I want to resurrect him. I want to go back to the guy who…
Are your thoughts from God or the world?
When I was younger my thoughts controlled me. Before I surrendered to Him I used to battle thoughts of anger,…
If you reject Him, He will reject you
If you reject Him, He will reject you “Lately I’ve been in the blind because I go back in the…
I thought I was ugly
When I was younger I was never comfortable in my skin so I isolated myself from others. During my youth,…
Peace and Bob Ross
How have you ever sat back and just wondered how Bob Ross remains extremely calm? Whenever he paints he never…
The current state of men
Many men feel weak, insecure, and shunned due to a lack of affirmation or biblical guidance by a dad or…
That time I got cut off…
In the past I’ve talked alot about cutting people off but I never talked about the time I was cut…
They will persecute you just like they persecuted Him
When you decide to tell yourself, “I’m gonna get it together this time!” Don’t be surprised when you experience persecution from…
Why I’m still single
As of January 1st, 2022 it’s finally dawned on me that I’ve never had a girlfriend or never even came…
Three Years Later…
Today is January 3rd, 2021 which means I’ve accomplished three years of sobriety, but I have mixed emotions of happiness…
Where do I go from here?
Mom’s dead now and I’m not too sure where I go from here. I think I’m doing well handling all…
Why do we think the worst in people?
Well, would you believe it if I said it’s natural to be slightly skeptical of people? Or would you just…
The momentum is shifting…
Yet again I feel as if the tides are turning and I can vividly hear the ocean waves. I’m not…
What is troubling you?
What are you afraid of when you close your eyes? You don’t have to tell me in the comment section…
Masturbation is self rape
The world teaches us that masturbation is stimulation of one’s own genitals for sexual pleasure. However, 2 Timothy 2:22 teaches…
You’ll never fit in anywhere
Yesterday, I caught myself asking God why do I not fit in with others? It all started when I was…
Your job is not your god
Many people worship their job and try to climb this imaginary corporate ladder but fail to realize it’s 100% imaginary!…
A Musing on Abstinence
by Britani Doulos The other day I was spending time with a sweet sister and we got on the topic…
Give up your fleshly desires
I’ve noticed that when it comes to making sacrifices we choose not to. But why is that? It’s because most…
I got Baptized
It’s normal to have doubts before a big event right? So I can’t be surprised that on Saturday I was…
God is not responsible for Church hurt
Churches have a responsibility to uphold God’s word and be honest with the congregation at all times. However, many believers…
Why it’s harder for men to submit to God
As a Christian I’ve been in and out of church over the last couple of years. I’ve struggled with being…
Advice for single men of God
Being a single man of God is not easy. As a single man of God myself, I’m advising you to…
What does it mean to be born again?
Being born again just feels weird because sometimes I feel as if God is talking to me and other times,…
Your battle is physical, spiritual and mental.
I used to think that life was a war consisting of physical and mental gymnastics that you have to conquer…
It’s hard to educate others
Yeah I said it. It’s hard to educate others. I’ve been writing this blog now for about a couple of…
Why is sin so attractive
We try our best not to sin/ lie but it’s challenging. Honestly, many of us have been raised to do…
I just want to be pure
One of my favorite films of all time is the Basketball Diaries. It’s a great film about promising basketball prospect…
I thought I could improve without God
Over the past three years my self-improvement journey has taught me alot about myself. I’ve learned about how to establish…
Greed has poisoned our souls
Greed. It’s the reason why our society is battling with an obesity crisis, and identity crisis, and overall, an emptiness…
Can I write better if I roll one up?
Lately, I’ve been feeling down in the dumps lying around in bed trying to run away from my thoughts. Sure…
Your anger will kill you
Many people are very angry in this world due to unhealed childhood issues. Oftentimes, that leads them to verbally abuse…
I thought I was stupid!
When I was younger my learning disability made me feel less than others. In middle and high school, it was…
Being good is easy until you’re tempted..
These past 2 years or so have been pretty interesting to say the least. I’ve quit drinking, smoking, gave up…
Do you believe in God or nah?
My church experiences haven’t been the greatest and have almost pushed me to become an atheist. Situations such as my…
Why you need to be more self-reliant in today’s society
Why you need to be self-reliant in today’s society In today’s world a lot of crazy things are happening. Guess…
I hated being called sensitive
Being called sensitive as a man is a death sentence because our culture implies that if you aren’t the beer…
Hollywood has made us hate ourselves.
Hollywood has convinced us that you aren’t beautiful without a chiseled jawline, 6 pick abs, a bubble butt, or the…
You need to get serious!
“January was just the trial version. I’m going to start working on my New Year’s Resolution in February.” says the…
Get rid of it!
Life becomes more simplistic when you learn to let go. Whether that be toxic relationships, friendships, jobs, and most importantly…
Adapt or perish!
So many of us have been trained by society to fear the future or even the present. We have let…
Being quiet intimidates others
Have you ever been told that you intimidate others? Well I have. Ever since I was in middle school I…
Money doesn’t heal your pain
Many still believe if they had all the money in the world, their problems would disappear. However, these people aren’t…
The Fire of Peter
The Fire of Peter In Matthew 26:69-75 (New King James Version) Peter denied Jesus three times before the rooster…
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