So many of us have been trained by society to fear the future or even the present. We have let…
Being quiet intimidates others
Have you ever been told that you intimidate others? Well I have. Ever since I was in middle school I…
The RAW truth about sobriety
“Been scared and only. I’ve asked myself is something wrong with you.” (Bottom of the Bottle, Smile Empty Soul) I’ve…
Money doesn’t heal your pain
Many still believe if they had all the money in the world, their problems would disappear. However, these people aren’t…
I don’t buy Christmas gifts
I know around this time of year everybody is buying gifts for their friends and family. However, I just do…
The “HUSH HUSH” era is dead!
Introverts, deep thinkers, and intuitives receive a bad reputation as being too quiet, afraid to speak, or vocalize their opinions.…
Never gossip at the workplace
Not everyone at your job is your friend or family. Many of your co-workers will smile in your face and…
Your issues are your issues
Have you ever heard anyone say to you, “I’m angry because my mother/father did this to me!” This same tired…
He ain’t a baby anymore
We need to stop referring to young men as boys or babies. Men will often turn to their adult son…
Cuffing season is ridiculous
It’s that time of year where people say they want to be “cuffed up” (in a fling) but many people…
Why Good people get so tired quickly..
As I good person I’ve realized many people lack morals and principles these days. However, this has nothing do with…
How to manage seasonal depression
Just to give those a disclaimer I am not a doctor or licensed therapist. I haven’t been diagnosed with seasonal…
Solitude comes with sacrifices
Let’s be honest. One of the reasons why you don’t fit in, don’t want to associate with everybody, and keep…
The 2nd addiction keeping you from your full potential
In last week’s blog I discussed lust and how it has been the number one hindrance in a man’s success.…
The #1 addiction keeping you from your full potential
From a men’s perspective, lust has been the downfall of many men. Whether you believe it or not a man’s…
Multiple Partners = Multiple problems
Our world is becoming completely shallow that I’m not even shocked anymore. Instead of blaming ourselves we’ve resorted to blaming…
The Art of Nothing
Over the years I’ve learned that people make comments that I don’t approve of. Back then I’d tend to get…
Breakdowns suck!
Have you ever had a mental breakdown in your life before? Well, I have.. It’s something you will always remember.…
Don’t mix business with pleasure
I didn’t think we’d have to talk about this but I guess we have to. From a man’s perspective I…
You must motivate yourself.
“OMG did you watch the latest podcast episode of “Tony Robbins” “No, I didn’t!” “What are waiting for you have…
You don’t deserve anything!
I don’t believe anyone deserves anything! Everybody needs to get up and work for what they have. When you keep…
Respect is everything.
What is one of the most fundamental keys in business, friendship, relationships, or family? Respect. If respect isn’t established beforehand,…
WWW it’s all about me, I don’t have to follow the rules!
Guest Blogger: Dorian Owens We live in a society where people choose to be unkind, respectful, or ever accountable for…
Don’t impress anyone
I’ve never been able to “fit in” with the crowd. It’s either I “stood out” or just “blended in.” Even…
This feels weird…
This feels weird… With everything going on right now everything is just weird.. During this time I’ve been forced to…
There’s too much eating!
Overtime, we’ve lost patience. We want things to fall into our lap without realizing, it takes time. Each day you…
Negative visualization isn’t a bad thing
In a world where everybody is striving to be more positive, we sometimes forget that negative things happen out of…
ARE YOU FAKE?
Being a follower means that your FAKE! Many people are misusing prescription medication and other recreational drugs to numb the…
Understand others more
Many of us believe we have to help everyone. However, this is an impossible task. You cannot help everyone. I…
N.A.K.E.D.
Relationships and marriages aren’t the same anymore because we aren’t in LOVE, we just LUST after each other. Unfortunately, LUST…
Forgive but never forget
Subscribe: We’ve all been screwed over by somebody! That’s just the way life is. With that being said, you must…
I’m not your bae
I don’t like it when a woman puts a title on me. I’m not your bae and we aren’t together.…
Why are you so calm?
Calmness in my heart has come from mediation and my own spirituality. Whenever I get angry, I simply let it…
They want you to freak out
With everything going on in the world it’s sad that people have become reactive instead of proactive. It’s the reason…
Happy Wife Happy Life
I wouldn’t consider myself a traditional person by any means. Especially when it comes to the phrase , “Happy Wife…
Are black men just athletes and thugs?
So I’ve been playing basketball for 10 plus years now. I had desires to play in the NBA but I…
I don’t buy what you’re selling
Too many people just talk too much. However, not too many people are actually doing anything. Have you ever heard…
Where did all the love go?
Many people are so ungrateful and believe they deserve more. Never thinking about anyone else besides their own happiness. This…
Blame Yourself
Our world is filled with many uncertainties which has lead many of us to act irrational and not logically. Each…
After the Awakening
Many people brag about being “woke” without realizing their not even “awake”. You still partying on a Friday night at…
Man Up
A man telling his fellow man to “Man Up” is not toxic, it’s a practice in self-reliance. This term is…
Who are you?
Society lives vicariously through toxic movies and shows to identify with themselves which leaves us with brain dead zombies. There…
I don’t need your approval
Am I doing a good job? Does this look okay? Questions like this that we’ve been trained to ask because…
Over thinking is killing you
Being an over-thinker has led me to lose out on many opportunities constantly wondering, “What if?” instead of “Why not?” Now, I have changed my way of thinking and stopped downplaying how great of a person I am
Okay.
In our culture, many people argue with the intent to belittle, embarrass, or even ridicule with snarky remarks and sly comments.
Never ignore the signs.
I spent too much time swiping right on Tinder, sliding into a another woman’s DM, and lusting for a woman’s touch that I’ve come to realize I won’t be happy continuing this behavior.
The problem with positive people
A body positive person is always quick to say, “I’m trying to be a more positive person and I don’t…
You ain’t fighting demons
Right now, the world is a battle between good and evil. Many people believe it’s okay do what you want.…
I don’t associate with ignorance
There are too many ignorant people in the world regardless of their race or gender. Ignorant people are too loud,…
The damage of glorifying drug culture
Whatever problems you are going through it’s your responsibility to find somebody to help or listen to. Ignoring the problem…
