Guest Blogger: Dorian Owens We live in a society where people choose to be unkind, respectful, or ever accountable for…
Don’t impress anyone
I’ve never been able to “fit in” with the crowd. It’s either I “stood out” or just “blended in.” Even…
This feels weird…
This feels weird… With everything going on right now everything is just weird.. During this time I’ve been forced to…
There’s too much eating!
Overtime, we’ve lost patience. We want things to fall into our lap without realizing, it takes time. Each day you…
Negative visualization isn’t a bad thing
In a world where everybody is striving to be more positive, we sometimes forget that negative things happen out of…
ARE YOU FAKE?
Being a follower means that your FAKE! Many people are misusing prescription medication and other recreational drugs to numb the…
Understand others more
Many of us believe we have to help everyone. However, this is an impossible task. You cannot help everyone. I…
N.A.K.E.D.
Relationships and marriages aren’t the same anymore because we aren’t in LOVE, we just LUST after each other. Unfortunately, LUST…
Forgive but never forget
Subscribe: We’ve all been screwed over by somebody! That’s just the way life is. With that being said, you must…
I’m not your bae
I don’t like it when a woman puts a title on me. I’m not your bae and we aren’t together.…
Why are you so calm?
Calmness in my heart has come from mediation and my own spirituality. Whenever I get angry, I simply let it…
They want you to freak out
With everything going on in the world it’s sad that people have become reactive instead of proactive. It’s the reason…
Happy Wife Happy Life
I wouldn’t consider myself a traditional person by any means. Especially when it comes to the phrase , “Happy Wife…
Are black men just athletes and thugs?
So I’ve been playing basketball for 10 plus years now. I had desires to play in the NBA but I…
I don’t buy what you’re selling
Too many people just talk too much. However, not too many people are actually doing anything. Have you ever heard…
Where did all the love go?
Many people are so ungrateful and believe they deserve more. Never thinking about anyone else besides their own happiness. This…
Blame Yourself
Our world is filled with many uncertainties which has lead many of us to act irrational and not logically. Each…
After the Awakening
Many people brag about being “woke” without realizing their not even “awake”. You still partying on a Friday night at…
Man Up
A man telling his fellow man to “Man Up” is not toxic, it’s a practice in self-reliance. This term is…
Who are you?
Society lives vicariously through toxic movies and shows to identify with themselves which leaves us with brain dead zombies. There…
I don’t need your approval
Am I doing a good job? Does this look okay? Questions like this that we’ve been trained to ask because…
Over thinking is killing you
Being an over-thinker has led me to lose out on many opportunities constantly wondering, “What if?” instead of “Why not?” Now, I have changed my way of thinking and stopped downplaying how great of a person I am
Okay.
In our culture, many people argue with the intent to belittle, embarrass, or even ridicule with snarky remarks and sly comments.
Never ignore the signs.
I spent too much time swiping right on Tinder, sliding into a another woman’s DM, and lusting for a woman’s touch that I’ve come to realize I won’t be happy continuing this behavior.
The problem with positive people
A body positive person is always quick to say, “I’m trying to be a more positive person and I don’t…
You ain’t fighting demons
Right now, the world is a battle between good and evil. Many people believe it’s okay do what you want.…
I don’t associate with ignorance
There are too many ignorant people in the world regardless of their race or gender. Ignorant people are too loud,…
The damage of glorifying drug culture
Whatever problems you are going through it’s your responsibility to find somebody to help or listen to. Ignoring the problem…
The truth about helping people
A Helper goes above and beyond to make sure everybody is good. But who usually helps the helper? Most of…
It’s just a game
Y’all need to calm down when your team loses. Yes, I said it! It’s just a game! It’s comical that…
Why families fall apart
Why families fall apart Thanksgiving is around the corner and the family is coming over. The same family that always…
Never address anyone publicly
Any issue I have with anybody I always address them in private, never in public. Nowadays, too many people are…
How to die sooner
You are deteriorating before your very eyes because you have been taught to value others’ opinions instead of valuing your…
You are not in sync.
You can’t remain focused on your goals because your mind and body are not properly in sync. It’s the reason…
I didn’t think Black women liked me
When I was younger, I didn’t attract a lot of black women. I remember in middle school asking black girls…
The truth about Generosity
Being Genuine is a noble characteristic that is overlooked and not cherished. When I was younger, my generosity has led…
Stop relying on others
I don’t have a lot of friends and family. Guess what? Neither do you. Most of us grew up in…
I am not your hero
Fred Rogers once said, “We live in a world in which we need to share responsibility. It’s easy to say,…
Are you willing to start over?
After twenty-five years of living and learning more about life, I can confidently say, “I AM TIRED OF LIVING AN…
You don’t owe them an apology
Never feel as if you owe anyone an apology for getting your life together. If you have to cut some…
You are alone in toxic company
You are alone in toxic company Many people are afraid to lose their friends due to their self-destructive behavior. It’s…
My Take on 11 Kripes by Lan Amore
Hey Everyone,
Check it my review on Lan Amore’s “11 Kripes” hip-hop album!
After my break from social media..
I decided to take break from social media because between promoting my upcoming book, keeping up with the blog, the…
Quit trying to be perfect..
When I was a kid I wanted everyone to like me. I constantly changed my appearance, my tone of voice,…
